By JASON GRAY
Pinnacle Law PLLC
Most people understand why they need an estate plan when they die. Far fewer think about what may happen if they are still alive but can no longer make decisions for themselves. In many ways, incapacity can create more immediate problems for a family than death.
Imagine that someone suffers a serious stroke, develops dementia, or is injured in an accident and can no longer manage their finances. The mortgage still needs to be paid. Investments may need attention. Tax returns still need to be filed. Property may need to be maintained or sold. Medical decisions must be made. Life continues even though the person who normally handles these responsibilities can no longer do so.
A common assumption is that a spouse or adult child can simply step in. As discussed in our previous article, family relationships do not automatically provide unlimited legal authority. A bank, investment company, title company, or other institution may require proof that someone actually has authority to act for the incapacitated person.
This is where incapacity planning becomes so important.
A comprehensive estate plan typically includes documents specifically designed for this possibility. A durable financial power of attorney can authorize a trusted person to handle financial and legal matters. Health care documents can identify who should communicate with medical providers and make health care decisions. A properly funded revocable living trust can provide another important layer of continuity because a successor trustee can step in and manage trust assets .
Without adequate planning, the alternative may involve the court system.
Depending on the circumstances and applicable state law, family members may need to petition a court for a guardianship or conservatorship, or a similar court-supervised arrangement, to obtain authority to make decisions. That process exists for an important reason. Courts must protect vulnerable individuals when no adequate alternative is available. But most families would prefer to choose their own decision makers in advance of a crisis.
Court involvement can also mean hearings, attorney fees, ongoing reporting requirements, and additional oversight. More importantly, it can consume valuable time when a family is already dealing with an emotionally difficult medical situation.
There is another issue that is sometimes overlooked: Who should be in charge?
Estate planning allows you to answer that question while you are healthy and capable. You can choose the person you trust to manage finances, another person to make medical decisions if appropriate, and backups in case your first choices are unavailable. You can also provide instructions that help those individuals understand what you would want.
One of the hardest parts of incapacity is not always making the decision itself. It is wondering whether you are making the decision your loved one would have wanted. Clear planning removes much of that uncertainty.
Incapacity planning becomes increasingly important as we age, but it is certainly not limited to older adults. Accidents and unexpected illnesses can occur at any age. Someone in their forties with children, a mortgage, a business, and investment accounts may create enormous practical difficulties for a family.
This is why a good estate plan should answer two completely different questions: What happens when I die, and what happens if I am alive but unable to manage my own affairs?
Many people have answered the first question and completely overlooked the second. Estate planning is ultimately about maintaining control. You choose who will help you, what authority they will have, and how your affairs should be handled.
The best time to make those decisions is while you are still able to make them for yourself.

Jason Gray is the founding attorney of Pinnacle Estate Planning. To schedule a free consultation in Spokane, Coeur d’Alene or online please call either (208) 449-1213 or (509) 505-0665 or email info@lawpinnacle.com.
*This article is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal or financial advice













